Pre-Marital Middleman Services

Till about half century  ago, majority of  marriages were settled through middlemen who were relatives or friends of the boy and the girl families. They had all the relevant information about both the families. Lot of information was exchanged between the families only through the middleman because girl and boy family did not have face to face  discussion on the matter, being a sensitive one. As middlemen were the persons  connected through family or social relations, they could not dare to share any false information or conceal any relevant information.  They were trusted and respected because they felt responsibility even after marriage. They also helped in negotiations to take both the families to agreement.

Current State of Affairs

There are no familiar  reliable middlemen as the once free match making service by relatives and friends has now turned into paid service by matrimonial  service providers. As a result match seekers  are not getting suitable matches despite the availability of lacs of profiles on big websites in the absence of middlemen.

Why Need of Pre-Marital Middleman is Strongly Felt ?

• A lot of information about would be groom and bride as well as their paternal/maternal families needs to be collected and verified from reliable sources.
• Would be groom and bride as well as their families hesitate to enquire and  verify information face to face to avoid any embarrassment to anyone as an important life long relationship is going to be created between two families.
• Negotiations on some matters are also a part of our match selection which again can’t be done face to face by boy and girl families.
• Need of middleman is felt very strongly if some  issue arises between boy and girl families during the process.
• Lack of middleman is the big problem for the match seeker families who find lot of good matches on big websites but can’t proceed.

Our Middleman Services

Our  middleman services are meant for those families/parents who have selected a apparently good match for the marriage of their son/daughter from some matrimonial website or some other source but

• they neither personally know anything about her/his family background, social/financial status, behaviour pattern etc nor are able to verify the information provided in biodata.
• They are unable/hesitant to negotiate  with their counterparts on sensitive matters of marriage budget, place of marriage ceremony, gathering, shopping etc.

and feel the need of a sincere and honest middleman who can mediate between both the families effectively.  

Service Charges

• If marriage budget is above Rs 50 Lac, charges are  1% of the marriage budget (actual).
• If marriage budget is Rs 50 Lac or below, charges are Rs 50000/-only plus GST
• Charges are  payable by both boy and girl families individually/separately in two equal instalments ½ at roka and ½ at wedding in the form of  Current Dated --Cheque, DD, Bank Transfer only in the name of company Marriage4Ever .